About My Mother by Tahar Ben Jelloun
Tahar Ben Jelloun’s About My Mother is a profound, semi-autobiographical meditation on the slow decline of a matriarch, the nature of memory, and the intricate bonds of filial love within the context of Moroccan tradition. The narrative, translated from the French by Ros Schwartz and Lulu Norman, alternates between the narrator’s present-day observations of his dying mother in Tangier (c. 2000–2002) and the hallucinatory recollections of her youth and three marriages in Fez. The Present: A House of Shadows and Forgetting The story opens with the narrator observing his mother, Lalla Fatma, who has become “a frail little thing with a faltering memory”. She is confined to her home in Tangier, cared for by a paid companion named Keltum and occasionally a nurse named Zineb or Rhimou. Lalla Fatma’s reality is fractured; she frequently summons relatives who have been dead for decades, talking to them as if they are standing by her bedside. She is convinced she is still in Fez, the city of her birth, and often believes the year is 1944 rather than 2000. The narrator provides a visceral account of her physical deterioration. She has become incontinent and “soils herself,” leading to a loss of dignity that …